astrology – YouTube – James Randi on Astrology
For a long time, I thought astrology was rather useless when it came to it’s influence on dating. I know, a lot of people love it, and some even base their dating decisions on it.
I don’t like limiting myself, especially based on something so archaic and ambiguous. I’d like to trust my own judgment in those matters.
However, this doesn’t mean that the horoscope is completely useless. There are several perks to having this come up in conversation. So even if you aren’t a believer in this sort of thing, it’s a great idea to know and understand some basics in this regard.
How does this work? Say you are chatting up a beautiful young woman you’ve met out some night. Things are going great and then she asks “what sign are you?” Generally, it’s prefaced or followed by her sign.
Now, you can answer and simply move on. If you know nothing about the signs, you might have gotten her to dismiss the idea of a date with you. No reasoning either, other than the horoscope told her not to.
You can see why I personally don’t care for a system like this. But that doesn’t matter, as you can turn this negative into a plus!
The first thing that must happen is a simple understanding of your sign’s compatibility. I’m a Virgo. Who is Virgo’s love match? According to a website I browsed, the signs I’m compatible with are: Taurus, Cancer, Scorpio, Capricorn. I’m apparently incompatible with Geminis and Sagittarius. And my opposite is Pisces.
What does this mean? Very little to me, but to the girl who brought it up, it can mean a ton. So KNOWING your sign and the compatibility with others can help guide you in the conversation.
If the sign is compatible, and you know this… you can smile and keep going. You can also delve deeper by inquiring about her Moon sign and Rising sign. Do a search on those for more information. Rest assured, you have a great topic in which to delve further into, and you KNOW she is interested in that.
If you are NOT compatible, don’t be dismissive! Instead, talk to her about what a challenge it is to see if you can make something work despite what the horoscope says. You want to challenge her limiting frame by playing yourself off as something of a safe experiment. If you’ve had fun thus far, it’s a good chance she’ll be willing to go in that direction with you.
If you are neither incompatible, opposite, or compatible, you can continue with the conversation by asking her more about her sign. A longer time talking gives you a chance to make a better connection, especially if the conversation is engaging to both of you.
To really make this work best for you, what you’ll need is a basic understanding of each sign, and the compatibility. This is easy. There are endless books and websites on the subject. Spend some time gathering information about it, even if it’s rudimentary. It will pay off in droves.
Cliches aside, invest some time into this. It’s worth it.
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Chinese astrology help?
Im not sure if anyone knows about chinese astrology but my signs are hour – earth rabbit, day – metal horse, month – fire horse, year – water monkey was wondering if anyone could tell me more about these signs and what they produce when combined. thanks.
